Challenges of Remote Working

I have worked from my office, from home, from coffee shops, from my car, playgrounds, park benches, classrooms, airplanes, trains, Ubers, nail salons, hair salons, auto mechanic shops, you name it. My job has a lot of flexibility about where and when I work and that is one of my favorite things about it and one of the reasons I chose this line of work. However, that can also be one of the most challenging aspects of my work.

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Don't Feed the Ego by Playing Small

I've been so worried about not coming off as egotistical and yet playing small like this is feeding the ego and making it stronger! Not acting or sharing or speaking strengthens the ego’s fear that we will be judged and it makes the ego right, it makes the ego stronger. Feeding the ego isn’t always about telling someone how fantastic they are. And for the many of us who deal with imposter syndrome, telling us how fantastic we are can actually feel like quite an affront to the ego.

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Sexism Disguised as Flattery

Benevolent sexism is (very basically) sexism disguised as care or consideration. It usually takes the form of men wanting to protect women's "delicate" or "fragile" sensibilities. And it is particular harmful and dangerous because most men don’t realize they’re being sexist, and many women probably don’t see it either!

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How to Get Unstuck Like an Educational Psychologist

I’ve really been struggling with my motivation for weeks. Finally, today I thought to myself, “Hey, I’m a motivation researcher. Let me use my research on myself.” I was reviewing an article that used Self-Determination Theory (SDT) by Ryan and Deci so that presented itself as an appropriate theory to use for my self-analysis.

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